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How to Help an Older Driver
Is there an "older driver" in your life whose driving skills concern you? The following steps are recommended by the AAA Foundation for Traffic Safety:
Stop. Don't scold or harangue a loved one about giving up the keys. The more you alienate an older driver, the less you can help. Look. Assess the older driver's behind-the-wheel skills as objectively as you can. Encourage him or her to take a self-assessment and visit a medical professional for a vision and driving-fitness check-up. Listen. Hear and understand the older driver's concerns. For many seniors, the mere thought of giving up the keys provokes feelings of dependence, abandonment, and virtual Imprisonment. Recognize those feelings, ease their fears, and assure them of your continued love and support. Act. Above all, agree together on a plan of action. It may begin with self-imposed limits, such as driving only on familiar, uncongested routes during daylight hours, and eventually lead to giving up the keys entirely.
The earlier you discuss the inevitable consequences of aging, the better you and your loved one can plan for them.
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